Cat's paw prints on a snowy outdoor stairway.

Sub-zero weather and my cat ventures out. No wonder felines have nine lives. My cat’s only three and she’s on her eighth life.

Her snowprints remind me of how we all leave impressions every day by our words, our actions, our silence. Sometimes our impact is small, even unnoticed. Other times we do something bold, outside of the safe zone.

Reading the recently-published young adult novel, Agnes at the End of the World, I reeled from the impact of Kelly McWilliams’ bold writing and narrative. McWilliams carves out a genre-defying story that begins in the uncomfortable life of The Handmaid’s Tale and moves into our contemporary world while challenging our values and beliefs.

The young Agnes loves her home of Red Creek until her beliefs are shattered upon learning she lives within a cult dominated by the rules of a false prophet fighting his own fears. McWilliams’ novel weaves faith, values, connectivity, forgiveness, and life’s purpose within the complexity of her plot and characters.

Her blog states that she’s a “mixed-race writer who has always gravitated towards stories about crossing boundaries and forging new identities.”

Isn’t that what we’re all attempting? To forge out renewed identities as we age, grow, suffer, celebrate. Be more compassionate with others who don’t share our beliefs. Be more accepting of those who live differently, choose differently. To sense the connective spirit, the omniscient God bonding our global community. All living beings, creatures, plants, trees, and waters are connected—no matter their evolving or stagnant condition.

What will remind us that the steps we take leave an impact in this fragile life? A Fitbit? A Smartwatch? The sun, stars, snow, spring flowers? What will help us grow more mindful of our footprints, words, actions, silence?

Maybe for you, it’s walking on trails, jogging on sidewalks, riding bike paths, staring at stars or the stages of the moon. Besides all of these, we can discover authors and illustrators who take our breath away and leave us looking a life and ourselves a little bit differently, a little bit lighter, a little bit better.

So, if we’re inclined to venture out in whatever weather we face today, remember that unlike my cat, we only have one life to live. Let’s make an impact with the steps we take.

Lessons from Elephant Art

Lessons from Elephant Art

Elephant Art

Finding the inspiration to stay positive during a pandemic year of “unusuals” was draining, if not pointblank depressing. Amid the chaotic climate of 2020, patience and impatience for “normalcy” bounced out of balance. All across the globe, emotions tipped up and down as if riding a teeter-totter. Sheltering in place, isolated us from what we knew. Would our “usual” ever return?

As an author, I did my normal story-storming, read posts by favorite writers, and participated in author webinars. My brain hurt. My passion dulled. Maybe I wasn’t a writer after all. Then one dreary morning in February, I zoned out gazing at a favorite painting of mine. A gift given to me during my stint as Anna in the musical “The King and I.” The watercolorists were two artsy elephants from our local zoo. Staring at their broad brushstrokes, I had an epiphany. Their silly, joyful, random way of exploding color on canvas epitomizes for me what fuels inspiration. It pumps the heartbeat of living and growing.

Here are five lessons these gentle giants taught me. May they feed your muse as well.

Lessons from Elephant Art

ONE: Don’t think about where to start. Just get doing.

TWO: Explore on a broader canvas, beyond what’s usual.

THREE: LOVE the mess. Imagine the process is a playground.

FOUR: Forget about failure. Nothing’s ever wasted.

FIVE: Keep joy in the journey.

Ready to begin a new venture? A fresh attitude? Think like an elephant. Congratulate yourself as you climb each slippery step toward your goal. Stay strong. No wavering…hesitating. When the newness wears away, hold on. You’ll be wowed by what’s beyond your “usual.”



Early this morning, I rolled out my cat-scratched, hole-poked mat once again and pressed Shuffle for my yoga tunes. With bones shouting and muscles complaining, I ebbed and flowed through my poses. I ended in the calming tree pose with one leg bent and a foot to my knee. Well…almost to my knee. My arms stretched from my heart to the sky. Gazing out the window, I saw a tree staring at me. Oddly enough, it posed in mirror image to me. We bent and swayed together in a ridiculous dance…the tree buffeted by wind…I battered by age. I was struck by the intricate balance between humanity and nature. And when that balance is betrayed, both are damaged.

During my practice, I thought of the profound connection humans have with one another and the world. It’s forged by kindness, spirit, compassion, goodness, pain, loss and love. If broken along any of those bonds, balance is restored by selfless acts. Caring for our planet and one another. Respecting God’s love for His world and creations.

After gaining stillness and centering from yoga, I washed my sweaty face. Started my computer for storytelling. I’ve submitted two picture books recently and am a player in the “Waiting Game.” Or is it the “Praying Game”? Well-loved, KIDLIT guru Julie Hedlund (“12 x 12 Challenge”) says, “Passion, patience, and perseverance.” True about life, too.

For a change, I’m writing a YA historical fiction novel. My 13-year-old neighbor and I had text-brainstormed the overall arc. Each week, she begs for the next chapter’s draft, returning it within the hour plastered with notes. A true teenage taskmaster!

In MAY, I’m playing host for the annual KS/MO SCBWI Critique Group online event. The humorous Christine Schmidt, author extraordinaire, is a marvelous organizer. With my group of five, I’ve discovered fun, authentic, encouraging, and supportive writers. What more could we ask of strangers? Perhaps storytelling connects “goodness” across the globe.

Within our surreal environments, the new “normal” will not be the old “normal,” if there ever was a “normal.” Finding balance within the changes takes time and effort. The delicate connection depends on us caring enough to act. Selfless acts come is all sizes. We’re fully equipped give one every day. To create a world where we wake up grateful for living. Radiating all light possible…even in the worst of circumstances…even as we make mistakes…sheltering within our homes and friendships. We are enough.



Cheers and grins for Rebecca Koehn’s debut picture book After the Rain! Rebecca’s clever storytelling leaps off the page into a splashy tale of how teamwork is key to building friendships. A perfect read for anyone!

Rebecca Koehn

When my copy arrived, I ripped off its wrapper and hugged it. Thrilling! Goose-bumping! Rebecca’s a favorite author, critique partner, and friend. I knew of her hard work behind the book. I knew of her hours drafting and revising. Of how she dug deep to make every word count while keeping the rhythmic read-aloud text. After the Rain delivers with a rollicking story that embraces sound, heart and humor.

Cover for After the Rain

Illustrator Simone Kruger’s lively artwork captures the story and its characters with charm, adding fanciful fun and excitement to each page. Her rainbow colors create childlike delight. Simone’s style will enchant readers, starting with the cover’s rainy rumpus!

Critique Group: Mary Ann Hendrix, Marsha Elyn Wright, and Rebecca Koehn

Here are The Three Amigas! That’s illustrator Mary Ann Hendrix, me, and Rebecca. Our first Road Trip together to the 2018 annual SCBWI KS/MO Regional Conference solidified our friendship and support for one another. We decided to meet monthly for a “crunch-and-munch” lunch while critiquing our work and lifting our spirits. Oh…laughing is key to a successful session for us!
Writing is a solitary adventure but the journey to good writing is one of community—the Kidlit Community and trusted Critique Partners. Within these groups, we celebrate successes and lighten rejections. We remind one another to keep believing. Persevere. Be patient. And the rewards are stellar!

Zip-a-dee-doo-dah! Whoooopeee! Congrats, Rebecca! Polish those tap shoes…next critique meeting, we’re all doing the Happy Dance!

Offer your support for Rebecca and the Kidlit Community. Purchase your own copy and gift copies. Recommend After the Rain to your local library, friends, teachers and more. Visit Rebecca’s Website. Write her a celebratory note!


By the way, the winner of the Give-Away copy of After the Rain is Rebecca Thill of Olathe, Kansas. Congratulations! Rebecca’s book is mailing its way to your doorstep. Enjoy!



“One of the sanest, surest, and most generous joys of life comes from being happy over the good fortune of others”—Archibald Rutledge. And…I’M HAPPY for Emily Lim-Leh! Her as-yet unpublished picture book manuscript My Grandfather’s Rojak placed in the Top 3 for the Scholastic Picture Book Award 2019.

Emily and I met as participants in Julie Hedlund’s 12 x 12 Challenge: . We’ve both learned so much from each other about Kidlit storytelling that we’re online Critique Partners as well.

Goodreads writes: “…Lim is an award-winning children’s book author. She was the first outside North America to win three Independent Publisher Book Awards (“IPPY” awards) for her books, Prince Bear and Pauper Bear (Bronze Medal 2008), Just Teddy (Bronze Medal 2009), and Bunny Finds the Right Stuff (Silver Medal 2010). [She] is also the first South-east Asian recipient of the Moonbeam Award, for her book, The Tale of Rusty Horse (Moonbeam Gold Medal 2009)….”

ME: I’m thrilled for you, Emily! You must still tingle from the Scholastic Book Award announcement. I understand The Scholastic Picture Book Award (SPBA) is a shared initiative between Singapore Book Council (SBC) and Scholastic Asia. Will you tell us more about this award?

Scholastic Picture Book Award

EMILY: This Initiative is one of the significant highlights of the Asian Festival of Children’s Content, which is organised by our Singapore Book Council. The SPBA has been established with the purpose of birthing quality children’s picture books of Asian content from content creators in Asia.The top 3 winners get publishing contracts with Scholastic Asia, so this is a very precious win.

ME: When I researched rojak, I discovered that it’s a mixture of Asian fruits and vegetables. I’m curious to know more. Why did you write about rojak? What inspired your story?

EMILY:I wanted my story to represent something distinctly Singaporean. At breakfast, we discuss lunch. At lunch, we are planning dinner. Food is a very important part of our Singaporean culture. We have a diverse range of food from all nationalities and cultures represented here.

Secondly, the Rojak dish is a popular and well-loved local street food here. Our neighbouring countries also have their own kind of rojak dish so it is also relatable to other Asian countries.Thirdly, ‘Rojak’ means ‘mixture’ or ‘eclectic mix’ and the ingredients are precisely that. For me, that’s symbolic of the Singaporean. We are a mix of different races and cultures but we see ourselves first and foremost, as Singaporeans.

ME: How long did it take you to write My Grandfather’s Rojak?

EMILY: I took about two months to write and revise a couple of times. I had two friends and critique partners look at it and give me feedback for story gaps. The SBPA competition criteria is unique because submissions need to include both manuscript and draft storyboard. So, I had to get my story out quickly for my friend to illustrate draft storyboards for our joint submission.

ME: How many revisions did your story go through before submitting to the SBPA competition?

EMILY: Interestingly, this has been one of my quickest-written-and-revised manuscripts. I had about four drafts before I submitted.

ME: You have several award-winning picture books. Did you always want to write for children or did something lead you into the Kidlit universe?

EMILY: I enjoyed writing as a child, but when I “grew up” and entered the working world, writing was the last thing I wanted to do. It wasn’t a career choice because it doesn’t pay much financially. Things changed when I developed a rare voice disorder shortly after marriage. I went through a journey of searching for a cure. In the process, I found God and a new voice in writing. Now, I cannot imagine doing something else.

ME: What have you learned about writing picture books from the experiences of winning international awards? Have these honors changed the way you create your stories?

EMILY: Winning the awards in themselves has not changed the way I write my stories. But awards have certainly encouraged me in my writing journey and given me that affirmation to keep at it on days when I feel discouraged.

ME: What qualities do you look for in a critique partner or group? How has participating in critique groups helped you as a writer?

EMILY: I wrote my first 4 children’s picture books as a winner and grant recipient of my Book Council awards. The market was very young then and I went at it alone – without critique partners – and that was really tough. So, I’m amazed that these are my bestselling books.

Little Godwit Finds His Wings

I found 12×12 through a blogger friend and found the critique support there very helpful to improving my writing. I look for critique partners who give their comments to me straight up—both the good and no-good feedback. And I reciprocate with the same. Iron sharpens iron, so I like to critique with people who challenge me to push myself in my writing.

ME: What’s something you’ve learned that you wish you would’ve known starting out as a writer for children?

EMILY: Nothing! It’s been a providential journey right from the start, so I just go with the write/ride.

ME: What does your writing “routine” look like?

EMILY: I went through several personal and family crises in the past few years so I actually could not recall what my writing routine was or if ever I had a proper one…haha.

A heart doctor friend asked me this exact same question over dinner recently and it sparked me finding and keeping a writer’s routine over the past two months. I have a lovely writer’s calender journal gifted from someone. Now, every day, I bullet-point each day with at least two writing related activities, be it reading a Kidlit book, working on a manuscript or watching an online writing class. It helps me to track my time better and make time for writing if I find I have slipped over the week.

ME: Is there anything else you’d like to share about your writing journey?

EMILY: My writing journey has been something totally unexpected and providential. I lost my voice to Spasmodic Dysphonia, a rare voice disorder, and recovered it along with a writing voice 10 years later. God has been the Author of my writing journey and it’s been one filled with  favour and flavor! You can read more about my backstory at a recent interview here:

Prince Bear & Pauper Bear

ME: Thank you, Emily! We’re so grateful to you for sharing your thoughts. Your journey and thoughts inspire us to keep believing in ourselves, practicing the art of storytelling, and submitting our work. We send you energy and inspiration for your continued success.

Find out more about Emily


Thank you for spending part of your day with me! If you have thoughts or questions for Emily, please comment below. Emily and I will enjoy reading your words. And if Emily has the time, I’m sure that she’ll respond.